Itadakimasu: what it means and when to say it
Itadakimasu (いただきます) is what you say in Japanese before you eat: a humble I receive this, a thank you to everyone and everything that brought the food to the table. After the meal you say ごちそうさまでした (gochisōsama deshita), thank you for the meal.
いただきます
- Romaji
- itadakimasu
- Meaning
- said before eating
Polite and casual
| Form | Who and when |
|---|---|
| いただきますitadakimasuEveryone | Before eating or drinking, alone or with others. |
| ごちそうさまでしたgochisōsama deshitaPolite | After the meal: to the cook, the host, whoever paid, the restaurant staff as you leave. |
| ごちそうさまgochisōsamaCasual | After the meal, with family and friends. |
| お粗末さまでしたosomatsusama deshitaPolite | The cook's or host's modest reply: it was nothing special. |
When to use it
Say いただきます just before the first bite, often with your hands together and a small nod. Families say it together at the table, and schoolchildren say it in chorus before lunch. Whoever cooked may say どうぞ召し上がれ (dōzo meshiagare), please enjoy.
When someone treats you, いただきます also thanks them before you eat, and ごちそうさまでした thanks them after. As a verb, いただく is the humble receive (giving and receiving): in a shop, これ、いただきます can mean I'll take this one.
When not to
Do not say ごちそうさまでした while you are still eating: it means the meal is over.
いただきます is about your own meal, not a wish for others: to invite people to eat, say どうぞ (dōzo), please, go ahead.
Examples
いただきます!
Romaji: itadakimasu!
Let's eat! (I humbly receive.)
ごちそうさまでした。おいしかったです。
Romaji: gochisōsama deshita. oishikatta desu.
Thank you for the meal. It was delicious.
遠慮なくいただきます。
Reading: えんりょなくいただきます。
Romaji: enryo naku itadakimasu.
Then I'll help myself, thank you.
お粗末さまでした。
Reading: おそまつさまでした。
Romaji: osomatsusama deshita.
It was nothing special. (The host's reply.)
bunka · culture
is written , from , the top of the head: people once raised a gift above their head to receive it. The thanks goes to the cook, to the farmers, and to the plants and animals that became the meal. In a restaurant, a to the staff as you leave is normal and welcome.
Common mistakes
- Saying いただきます after the meal. It comes before; ごちそうさまでした comes after.
- Treating it as bon appétit. Bon appétit is said to others; いただきます is said by the one who eats, about their own meal.
- Forgetting both when you eat at someone's home. They are a small thanks to the cook, and people notice.
Questions people ask
Say it out loud, with feedback
Knowing a phrase is not the same as saying it. In Naraio you practice phrases like these in short role plays with Hana, a tutor who listens, answers in natural Japanese and scores your pronunciation, and spaced reviews bring them back before they fade.