Thanks and apologiesお礼とお詫び

Thank you in Japanese

Thank you in Japanese is ありがとうございます (arigatō gozaimasu), the polite form, or ありがとう (arigatō) with friends and family. For a small kindness, people also say どうも (dōmo) or すみません (sumimasen), which thanks and apologizes at once.

ありがとうございます

Romaji
arigatō gozaimasu
Meaning
thank you

Polite and casual

FormWho and when
ありがとうございますarigatō gozaimasuPoliteStrangers, shop staff, teachers, coworkers, anyone older than you.
ありがとうございましたarigatō gozaimashitaPoliteFor something that is over: a meal, a lesson, a stay, a finished favor.
ありがとうarigatōCasualFriends, family, and people younger than you.
どうもdōmoLightA quick thanks for something small: a door held, change handed back.
すみませんsumimasenPoliteThanks for trouble someone took for you: sorry to have bothered you.

When to use it

ありがとうございます fits almost anywhere: a shop, a hotel, a coworker passing you a file, a stranger who gives you directions. Make it stronger with どうも or 本当に (hontō ni, really) in front.

Switch to the past, ありがとうございました, when the favor is done: leaving a restaurant, after a lesson, at the end of a stay. Shop staff say it to you as you leave.

すみません thanks someone for going out of their way: picking up what you dropped, making room on a train. It says sorry for the trouble, and in Japanese that is a thank you.

When not to

ありがとう on its own is too casual for a boss, a teacher or a customer.

どうも alone is very short. With someone senior it can sound curt; say どうもありがとうございます.

Examples

  • 手伝ってくれて、ありがとう。

    Reading: てつだってくれて、ありがとう。

    Romaji: tetsudatte kurete, arigatō.

    Thanks for helping me.

  • どうもありがとうございます。

    Romaji: dōmo arigatō gozaimasu.

    Thank you very much.

  • いろいろありがとうございました。

    Romaji: iroiro arigatō gozaimashita.

    Thank you for everything.

  • あ、すみません。

    Romaji: a, sumimasen.

    Oh, thank you. (To someone holding a door.)

  • 本当にありがとう!

    Reading: ほんとうにありがとう!

    Romaji: hontō ni arigatō!

    Thank you so much!

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Tipping is not customary in Japan: in restaurants, taxis and hotels, a clear is the thanks, and after a meal, . Thanks often come with a small bow, deeper for bigger favors.

Common mistakes

  • Saying ありがとう to a teacher or a boss. Add ございます.
  • Saying the past ありがとうございました while the favor is still going on. The past closes the matter; save it for the end.
  • Pronouncing a u at the end of ありがとう. The う makes the o long: arigatō, sometimes typed arigatou.
  • Hearing すみません only as sorry. When someone does something for you, it is often the thank you.

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